Oh that hair!...the post dedicated to the cow lick

Since day one, Samantha has had a full head of hair. It's not a bad thing, in fact, we love it and Kristi takes advantage of it so she can put bows and barrettes in her hair. One thing that makes Samantha unique is that she has a permanent "cow lick". For those of you who don't know what a cow lick is...its hair that sticks up and will not go down.

At first, Kristi and I were a little self conscious of her protruding hair, but over time we grew to accept it. Initially, we tried to comb her hair down with water, but then that just left her hair looking greasy. After each bath, we would quickly rush to get her dressed, sit her up and comb her hair, but it was always too late, the cow lick came back.

A few weeks ago, I thought I had cracked the code. I realized that we combing her hair in the wrong direction and we were actually causing the cow lick. See, her hair wanted to naturally part forward, but we were combing it backwards. After trying to remedy the cow lick by following the natural part of her hair, it still would not fall down. I feared it was too late. Her hair may be permanently set to stay in the cow lick position. 12 weeks of combing against the way her hair parts might be too much to overcome.

In the end, I've decided that I'm ok with it. Her cowlick gives her character and makes Samantha unique. When we take her out with the cow lick, she still attracts lots of attention. I can't tell you how many people tell us how beautiful she is. Could it be the cow lick or her eyes???...only time will tell. Heck, we should all embrace the cow lick. Just yesterday, I went out shopping with Kristi and we were rushed, I had not showered. I had a series of cow licks, but I knew a hat could cover my cow lick. Driving through the shopping center, I decided to stop by my local hair cutting shop since they were not busy. I walked in, sat in the chair and removed my hat...oh no...my cow lick. At first, I was embarrassed and explained to the stylist that I had not showered yet today and I had not planned on coming in to get my haircut. She quickly calmed my fears and said, "Don't worry, we'll just wash your hair...in 20 minutes, you'll be fine." Everything was going to be ok. She was accepting of my cow lick. With that statement, I thought of Samantha and her cow lick. She will grow up to be proud of her cow lick.

Our message to all of you is: Don't worry about your cow lick. If you wake up in the morning and your hair is sticking up, it's ok...embrace it! Sometimes its just natural to have a cow lick.
Samantha does a pretty good job showing off her hair.

On a separate note, Samantha turned 12 weeks old on Thursday. Happy Birthday Samantha!

And then there were 4.......

Well...we just wrapped up the last of our visitors today, with the visit of Aunt Cori and Uncle Brian. We had a wonderful long weekend with them. After 11 weeks, everyone, who was going to visit, has flown down to spend some time with us. It has been a lot of excitement and we have enjoyed having everyone visit us. Now its back to normal, no more extra set of hands and free nights out for dinner. Thanks to everyone who made for your company and help. Now its back to just Kristi, Samantha, Bailey and me...

Cori and Brian arrived Thursday night, when Samantha was sleeping, but got to spend a lot of quality time with her on Friday and Saturday. Kristi took advantage of the free babysitting and went into work for a little while. I, unfortunately, also had to work all day. I was in the stores working, versus sitting behind my desk...its was pretty challenging and certainly makes me appreciate my day job. (here is a picture of me in my "working in the stores" clothes).

The weather was beautiful so we all got to spend a lot of time out in the sun. Overall, it was a great trip with lots of fun and laughs. Here are some pictures we took of the weekend (click here). Below is a clip that we took of Brian and Samantha:

Kristi still continues to work with Samantha on her stomach. Samantha is really getting strong. She's able to hold her head up on her own and look all around. She also loves laying on the floor. She's very active and has even started leaning to the side, trying to roll over.

Today, we went over to visit our friends Lauren & Kyle, who just had a new baby girl named Jane Ellen (congrats Lauren & Kyle!!!). While we were over at their house, I put Samantha on the floor to play and kick around. While she was laying there, she kept trying to eat her hands and at the same time kept lifting her legs up and then rolling to her left side. A couple of times she got about 85% of the way to rolling on her stomach. She's pretty advanced, and we are so proud of her! Today, she even said "Da". I'm taking credit for Dad, because I was playing with her and making her laugh at that time. Marking this one in history books...Samantha first spoke at 11 weeks...March 21st, 2010 at 4:34pm.

Hello Blog...It's Me...Nick...

Wow...it has been way too long since the last time I updated the blog. I apologize that it has been so long. Candidly, I wanted to spend all of my free time with Samantha (and Kristi), which in turn resulted in a neglected blog. It's a little bit selfish, but you'll understand once you see the updated pictures (click here)...she's really cute and so much fun to be around!

So much has happened over the last 3 weeks and Samantha has grown so much. Samantha has developed an awesome personality where she laughs and giggles all the time. We took her to her 2 month doctors appointment a few weeks ago and she has filled out nicely. He cheeks are chubby, but not too big. Samantha weighed just under 12 pounds...but now at almost 11 weeks, she's probably a little over 12 pounds.

Kristi went out and bought a bouncer seat (pictured to the right) for Samantha. This was the best investment we've made to date...although gripe water is a close second. This seat is a vibrating seat that we usually put Samantha in when we're eating or getting things done in the kitchen. Most of the time Samantha will sit there and laugh, kick and smile. A quick comment on gripe water...this stuff is amazing...and its just sugar water. If Samantha gets too fussy or if she gets the hiccups, we'll give her a little gripe water, and everything is ok. Crying, hiccups, burping, you name it can be cured by gripe water. It's 1oz for $10...but I'll never complain about the price.

Kristi still has not gone back to work full time yet. We've been slowly transitioning to bringing Samantha to her new babysitter for half a day one time per week. For those of you that did not know, we did end up finding a babysitter, here in the neighborhood...which is really convenient. Her name is Amy, although some have called her the "baby whisperer". We're really happy that we found her. Kristi will probably start going back to work in the next few weeks. While she is at home, she's definitely been utilizing her OT skills to keep Samantha on track developmentally. They play on the floor a lot and Samantha spends a lot of time on her stomach working her muscles. The other day, she actually rolled over from her stomach to her back, although we haven't been able to repeat it again. Take a look at the video below...Samantha is really doing great holding her head up!

At night and during the days, we've had mixed luck with Samantha sleeping in her crib. Most nights she's been going down to bed around 8pm and then she'll sleep until 5 or 530AM...not bad. Recently, whenever we put her in her crib, she'll cry herself to sleep for 10 minutes. It really breaks my heart to hear her cry, but I get that its necessary. I will tell you that its the longest 10 min to sit through. Kristi's really been working on putting her in her crib during the day for naps. We're getting better, but not at 100% yet.

Gram and Gramp Estes came in to visit us this past weekend (another reason why I didn't update the blog...I didn't want to be rude while they were here!). We had a wonderful 5 day trip and Samantha loved meeting her grandparents for the first time. Aunt Cori and Uncle Brian come in Thursday for a long weekend. We've been lucky to have so many visitors. Many people ask if we get tired of having so much company, but I can honestly say that we don't. It's really nice to have an extra set of hands to help out or have some new folks to chat with...or in my Dad's case...an extra set of hands to lay vinyl floors and work on projects around the house! Don't worry Brian...I still have plenty of projects for you to help out with.

Until next time...but not as long as the last time...I promise...

7 Weeks...

It's amazing how fast time goes by. Samantha is already 7 weeks old. We are starting to work on getting Samantha into a schedule for feeding, playing and sleeping. Kristi has been working on this during the day. Once Samantha wakes up, she will eat and then play for an hour or two and then go to sleep for 2-3 hours. The schedule repeats every 4 or 5 hours...the biggest variable is the nap. (Note: most of these observations are based on conversations with Kristi since a lot of this happens during the week, while I"m at work). I finally got to test my skills today while Kristi had to go to work during the morning. We started off the morning at 730am with a feeding and then Samantha and I went downstairs to play on her mat and hang out until about 9 o'clock, when she went down for a nap.

It seems like she has grown up so much in just one week. She has graduated from the baby that just wanted to be held, staring randomly around the room, and who would fall asleep in your arms at any time to a more independent baby that loves to play on her mat. Below are a couple of clips that we took:

She is a talker and really recognizes us. The best moments are when she's looking around the room and then will make eye contact with you and give you the biggest grin. She does pretty well when we change her too. Once we get rid of a dirty diaper, she's a happy baby. She'll laugh and yell and make all kinds of noises. I'll have to capture some video of this and post soon.

We typically put Samantha in her crib whenever she sleeps now. She used to go in her swing or bassinet that came with her pack and play. She does pretty well in her crib at any time of the day (of course, now i have probably jinxed myself).

Samantha is still the noisiest baby. She can't move or breath without some kind of groaning or grunting. It's almost chronic. We actually Googled "groaning and grunting baby" the other day and found a lot of topics on it. There is actually a syndrome called grunting baby syndrome (GBS). After reading a few articles, and continuing to monitor her, I have determined that, in my expert opinion, she is just being a normal baby.

On a separate, but related note, we want to welcome Laura Patterson. She was born on Valentines Day's. Laura, along with Mark, Lynn and Claire live up the street. I'm sure Laura and Samantha will become great friends as they grow up together!...and Claire will be a great big sister for both of them.

Here is a link to some updated pictures: link

Hooray Weekend!

I love the weekends! Weekends bring rest, relaxation and hanging out with Samantha!

The past few weeks have been tough for me with getting home early from work. There's been a lot going on at work and traffic has been awful so it has limited the amount of time that I get to spend at home. But, no matter how time consuming the work week may be, I love Friday afternoons when I drive home and scoop Samantha up in my arms.

Typically during the week, Kristi is on night duty so I can sleep through the night and get to work early. This makes it tough since she is the only one around during the day. We have been trying to find a balance and get into a routine to see what works best for all three of us. Some nights, I'll come home, we'll eat dinner and then Kristi will go to bed around 8pm and sleep until Samantha's first feeding. I'll stay up and play with Samantha and try to feed her around10 or 11 and then put her down. This usually keeps her asleep until 2 o'clock. The other night, we got a great treat where Samantha slept until 5AM...almost 6 hrs. The challenge with this schedule is that Kristi and I don't get to see much of each other, which obviously, we don't like. Some nights, Kristi has gone out with co-workers or friends for dinner and drinks. This past week, my mom was in town so we had a little more flexibility to get things done and get out of the house since we had an extra set of hands. Thanks mom for all of your help!

On the weekends, I try to help out as much as possible since I can't during the week. I'll get up with Samantha and we'll hang out downstairs. It can be an early start to the morning, but I'm learning to deal with minimal sleep. Every now and then I'll crash, but those are rare exceptions.

Each weekend morning, Samantha and I have a routine. It typically starts with diaper change and then I'll hold her all bundled up in my arms. I'll usually give her around 50 - 75 kisses and then she'll decide if she wants to stay awake, fall back asleep or eat from her bottle.

Here's a video clip of Samantha first thing in the morning trying to fight sleep...she makes great faces.



Most mornings she'll lay back down in her swing or bassinet until about 9am. Here's another video that I took:



It's a lot of fun to watch her and hang out with her. These days, she is starting to see us and recognize us and give us a little smile and smirk which cracks us up.

This week...Dave & Gwen visit us. We are looking forward to seeing them. It's Valentine's Weekend...we might go out the 5 of us to dinner somewhere.

Samantha is 1 month old!

Wow...where does time go? Samantha turned 1 month old on Thursday. I can't believe how old our little girl is getting. She went to the doctors and weighed in at 8lbs 5oz, which was a pound heavier than our last visit. I have already noticed how much longer she is getting and, of course, has already grown out of her newborn clothes. She's starting to recognize us now, and I love to see her eyes light up when I come home from work or come over to hold her when she's upset.

It's funny. They say that if you remain calm and relaxed, then your baby will develop a similar attitude. Over the last 4 weeks, Kristi and I have really tried to remain calm and make sure we never get too stressed, no matter how tired we get. I always try to remind both myself and Kristi that we have to take baby steps (no pun intended)...and that every day is a new opportunity to watch Samantha grow and develop. I have noticed that a few times this week, I came home a little stressed and preoccupied and would try to hold her and it seemed like she didn't want anything to do with me. She became agitated and would fidget and cry. Then, Friday night comes along where I wanted nothing but to hold her and she was as calm as could be!

Samantha is very photogenic. Our friend Michelle came over a few weeks ago to take pictures of Samantha. She did an awesome job. Below are a couple of our favorites:

Well...off to bed for me. I need to take advantage of all the sleep I can get. Getting up tomorrow to go to the airport to pick up my mom. She is coming to spend the week with us. It'll be great having her around and I'm sure Samantha will enjoy meeting her grandmother too.

Enjoy the pictures...I will post more later.

Happy 3 Week Birthday Samantha!

Phew...it's been a long time since I updated our blog. This is fine for those of you who we have talked to recently on skype, but i apologize to those who we have missed. You see...our schedule with Samantha is: eat, sleep, pee/poop, eat, sleep, pee/poop, eat....(you get the point). Not sure if you noticed, but "update blog" was not in the schedule. I try to update while Samantha's sleeping (like she is right now). I also have to add...going to work in my schedule since that takes up a large chunk of the day.

We're officially on our own this week. The Arc's left last Friday night so Kristi has been fending for herself during the day. I've been encouraging her to take as many naps as she can, but there have not been many. I'm sure she will get into a routine with Samantha in the next couple of weeks.

At night, Samantha usually goes down between 10 and 11. She usually gets up for her first feeding at 1AM, then again at 3 or 4 and then again around 7AM. Last night we fed her a lot (she was very hungry...we're thinking she was going through a growth spurt) and she ended up sleeping until 4AM. She ate and then slept until 730. It was a nice change for Kristi to sleep in, although we're not banking on a new trend, yet.

Samantha's umbilical cord fell off last week, so we have started giving her a bath in her little bath tub. She starts off a little fussy, but then calms when she's in the warm water. It seems like she's getting less fussy with each bath and starting to enjoy it more.

When I'm holding Samantha...I find myself trying to pick out patterns or habits with Samantha. For example, when Samantha starts to fall asleep, I'll stare at her and watch as her face twitches. She'll make little noises and I always know when she's getting ready to pass out when her twitches turn to a long smile and then move to pure relaxation. I want to capture this moment on video, but I'm always afraid to get up and disturb her from her sleep.

Samantha loves to make noises. I don't think she knows how to move her arms or head without some kind of sound. We're getting better at understand crying or noises for diaper changes vs hungry vs just laying around looking for attention.

Well...time to go stare at Samantha while she sleeps. I could go and work on my computer or play Wii...but I think I'll just sit by her and give a bunch of kisses until Kristi gets home. It's her 3 week birthday today...Happy Birthday Samantha...we love you!